Alarya and Bernard Jay are ordained ministers who carry a special and unique energy. 

Married for thirty-eight years, in relationship for forty,
they are living examples that love can endure. 

This loving couple brings to you a ministry of Sacred Union, a blending of the divine feminine and masculine in perfect balance. Their long-term, quality relationship still resonates with love, passion, joy, communication and fun.

Alarya has performed many weddings over the years, in both traditional and non-traditional forms. She is adopted into the Northern Owl Clan of the Shoshone Nation, and has been trained to do ceremonies with a profound native flavor, often out on the land in the healing presence of the red rocks.

Bernard is Hawaiian, and carries a strong kahuna energy. Together, they can create beautiful and moving non-denominational ceremony to initiate you into your new life as a married couple.

Together or individually, Alarya and Bernard are happy to officiate at any spiritually based ceremony that you desire, to mark